Aug 18, 2021
In this episode, we continued speaking with Lola Bade-Aluko who
is also known as “Lawler”, a Proudly Nigerian Clinical
Psychologist and Sexologist currently based in South Africa. Lawler
is a wearer of many hats and has taken on several great
opportunities in her lifetime. She is a Talk Practitioner, a host
at various radio talk programs in Nigeria, England, and Swaziland,
and also runs a Psychological Unit called Shoulders and a reach-out
unit, called Real Issues with Lawler where she volunteers, hosts
talks and does counseling. She does all this also while working as
the Executive Director of a Technology Firm.
On a more personal level, she is a proud mother to two young adults
and a wifey. Lawler is very passionate about mindset transformation
and believes in the use of media as well as various other forms of
outreach techniques in Behavioural Modification.
[00:01 – 03:16] Opening Segment
- Introduction
[03:16 – 13:54] Demystifying Sex
- The African Mentality on Sex
- Reasons why African Parents saw talking about sex as a taboo
- The need to have a positive view about sex
- Understanding that ypu\re the custodian of your body
- The Stages of Se Education according to age
[13:54 – 29:03] How Sex Education helps to Prevent Sexual Abuse
- Teaching children about abuse
- How silencing children encourages abuse
- Lawler shares her experience with his child
- The Lack of Knowledge in our Community
[30:54 – 44:30] Sex Education in African Schools
- Why Sex Education isn't Encouraged in African Schools
- How some African Countries are changing the narrative
- The Nigerian & South Africa examples
- Sharing a sleepover story
- Applying the stages of sex education
[44:30 – 57:12] Final Suggestions & Remarks
- Steps we need to take in order to educate our teens on sex
- Creating a safe environment for children to press themselves
- We need to stop overreacting about sex
- How to reach out to Lawler
- The promise of having 18+ Episode on Sex Education
- Final words on this topic
Tweetable Quotes:
“Educating our youth about sex will help them understand what they feel, why they feel the way they feel, and what to do about it.” – Anyoh Fombad
“Most African Parents are scared of sexual education because they think it will give the teens a wrong exposure. No, it will rather empower them to take control of their sexuality.” – Lola Bade-Aluko
“If we educate our adolescents on sex accurately, there will be less sexual abuse in our community.” – Lola Bade-Aluko
"We owe our children an obligation to create a safe space where they can talk about sex with us. And that obligation, we can fulfill if we want to.” – Anyoh Fombad
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Lawler can be reached through any of the following media:
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- Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter: @realissueswithlawler or Lola Bade-Aluko
- Email: realissueswithlawler@gmail.com
- Contact Number: +27760123910